Friday, May 17, 2013

Scorpio VS Aquarius: Tale of the humanitarian and the recluse.

 When we speak about these two zodiac signs, it's important to remind ourselves of their differences and similarities, here's a short observation:

Similarities: Both fixed
                  Both stubborn
                  Both enjoy mind games
                  Both somewhat quirky

Differences: Scorpio is jealous - Aquarius isn't
                   Aquarius is detached - Scorpio isn't
                   Scorpio wants one love affair forever - Aquarius is petrified of that

When these two sun signs meet, it's a battle of wills, the Scorpio like to  poke and prod. The Aquarius also likes to do this, but in a more lighthearted way, where as Scorpio can sometimes be fueled by repressed bitter feelings. Here is where the difference lies, the Aquarius mostly deals generally in a grand scheme, the world is Aquarius playground, and they very much would like it to be better, and if it isn't what they want, they will go to great lengths to make it that way. Very unselfish in these aspects, however the Aquarius can also be a bit selfish in the way they go about these things, sometimes letting their emotions get the better of them, ironically for a cold and detached sign, these guys are very prone to suffer from disenchantment with society from time to time, never succumbing to it fully though.

Scorpio plunges deep into emotional waters, that they live in and have lived in from birth, the catch is that they will not open themselves as an Aquarius does with his heart for societal justice. Aquarius perceives this as indifference and even though Aqua can be the master of being indifferent, they rarely will put up with anything they see as selfish or unneeded and childish, ruled by Saturn and Uranus, they have a dose of seriousness as well as open hearted (to the world) excitement. Scorpio rules in secrets, games, and passion, Scorpios games play on the emotions, the mind and sometimes cruelty to others. Aquarius not only does not respect this, but they hate, and I mean hate any person they see as keeping someone else down.

Of course, what Aquarius perceives as selfishness from Scorpio isn't always so. Nothing is truly as it seems with the Scorp, and though Aqua does enjoy puzzles and the like, they won't put up with games that they see as childish and immature schoolyard bullying. So the ultimate clash lies in the fact that Aquarius is not so much into personal ventures as the Scorp is and also the fact that Scorpio cannot relate to Aquarius much at all, because Aquarius is a very large broad scope, and Scorpio is much more of a silent hunger, and even though they may be similar and want change for the world, Scorpio readily accepts that the world isn't perfect.

Aquarius would tell the Scorpio to get over it if they heard them complaining about what they see as a selfish complaining and distraction from the bigger picture that Aqua believes everyone should contribute to and if you aren't contributing you are damaging. This of course is not true all of the time, and a bit unfair for the Scorpio to be victimized based off of perception, oh but the thin line you tow Scorpio because you do this exact same thing sometimes. Anyways, to reiterate my previous statement about Aquarius telling the Scorpio to get over small minded strife and hurt emotions, the Scorp would tell Aquarius to get over trying to save the world because it is a dark place, and there's nothing anyone can do about it, so deal with it.

Scorpio understands darkness and the twisted intent from people, they bluntly tell people how they should be, and what they should do - Aquarius doesn't like this, they hate constraint placed on them by some controlling person - The Scorpio. So the difference again lies in the fact that Scorpio hits people personally, while Aquarius when they tell people what they should be doing they just offer advice, and they also persuade the person to do humanitarian things, not personal attacks. Aquarius has little time to be bitter about someone or something, and plan revenge or hack away for years at them about something minor (in the Aqua mind it is minor).

Usually, the only time you'll see an Aquarius angry or distraught is if they are feeling like humanity is dying or that someone isn't pulling their weight. Scorpio does everything in that manner, everything they do is either happy or sad, mad or content, this or that. Aquarius find this somewhat cumbersome and boring, also they might perceive this as a falsity but it is not, the Scorpio is dead serious. Still though, the Aquarius can't help but feel like it's a minor thing and that they'll get over it, the thing is they won't get over it, and this annoys the Aquarius to no end. The way Aquarius sees it is - put up or shut up. While Scorp may also preach this, they rarely do it - sorry Scorpios. Aquarius feels very much larger than a Scorpio in scope and in life in general because they feel like they represent humanity, while they see the Scorpio as representing themselves only. Even if it's not true, Aquarius usually goes on instinct, and if they see someone with a selfish bone in their body or a bad negative aura like Scorpio usually carries, they will back away. If there's one thing Aqua hates more than injustice is bitterness and negative energy.

In the end Scorpio feels like they usually do, victimized for being too emotional and misunderstood, Aquarius feels the same way but they feel it as society betrayed them, where as Scorpio feels like Aquarius betrayed them.

In the end neither sign wins, both believes they won and will continue to believe it.

Peace of mind goes to Aquarius, however.

                 

44 comments:

  1. Sometimes it's the Aquarius who knows that they messed up. They know that they messed up so badly that they don't deserve a second chance. It sounds like I am putting someone else on a pedestal, however that is not my intention, it's just, I don't think anyone deserves someone who lost their trust, who they can't be themselves around, who makes them a worse person, who can't make them feel whole, who judges, and acts like they care and then the next day they don't. This is not my point of view of the relationship but if someone feels that way about me, I don't want to try to make it work. I deserve someone who is happy knowing me just like she deserves someone who understands.

    As for the relationship being real or not, that is in the eyes of the beholder. I thought so but what does my opinion count for. I'm not going to try to fix things because it's impossible.

    I've failed. Love doesn't come easily to me, something isn't working between how I feel and how I express it.

    Please don't confuse me not trying to fix things with a lack of caring. I will always love you and care about you.

    My analogy is that I'm a drugged up parent who knows they can't help their child become a successful human being. I'd only be hurting my child if I stayed. Even if I got clean, I'll be resented for the trauma that occurred beforehand (especially with a Scorpio). The best thing I can do is leave.
    ...Maybe that wan't the best analogy. My point is, I'll leave this Scorpio alone forever if that's what she wants because it might benefit both of us. My door is always open though. If you want to come back you can. I'd love to be those old ladies in rocking chairs...let's not rock to fast though ;)

    Sorry this is so scattered. I wrote down everything the first time but it didn't send so I have to say everything all over again.

    In this whole thing I forgot to say I'm sorry. I hope that translated through my words. I know it doesn't change anything but I really am.

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    1. I'd like to start off by saying that on Friday a few hours after reading this I wrote out a full out response and this lovely website decided to delete it and so I was frustrated and quit on it and stomped off instead of being patient and re-writing it (it was one of those days).

      When I re-read what I sent you that night over facebook the first thought that comes to mind is that maybe I was too harsh, but then I know from deep within that what I said was long over due and those feelings needed to be expressed with the same amount of passion that they were felt with.

      I still stand by my word, I really won't be able to forget what happened back in June, I'm not fully proud of the fact that I can't just move on from it letting bygones be bygones however it's a part of my nature to remember the wrongs, and I can't change that despite how hard I try. However I do want you to know that just because I take the bad things to heart, doesn't mean that I don't remember all the good things.

      If you've hurt me like no other, you've also made me happy like no other. I'm proud to say that I've smiled some of my brightest smiles with you and have indulged in limitless laughter. We have so many memories, and I won't lie to you and say that it will be easy for me to get over those either.

      Good or Bad, you're a part of my life, there's no telling what the future holds and even if we never talk to each other again, your place in my life will always belong to you.

      I've stressed that we're very different plenty of times, and Lol, I think this article was spot on in everything and I will admit that I did laugh out loud at many of the points it made.

      "Aquarius telling the Scorpio to get over small minded strife and hurt emotions, the Scorp would tell Aquarius to get over trying to save the world because it is a dark place, and there's nothing anyone can do about it, so deal with it."

      Like seriously, can you be more accurate? :)

      Like I said I didn't want to do anything rash like abruptly end the friendship which is why I asked/am asking for space in order to let the feelings inside simmer down because right now if I just ignore them they'll reach boiling point like, lol, how they did last week. (still can't believe I got so mad that I walked home from school). #scorpio Well, you always wanted to get me mad...I didn't explode though, that would have been bad...I was still a biotch, and I am sorry, but if I had stayed we would have had an extremely awkward and annoying rest of the day. Which entails that my walkout was necessary FupHuffle. (I kind of wanted to text you BBB-Out but I was too mad to be funny and I don't think you'd have appreciated the wry humor.

      Anyway, I know we don't see this situation eye to eye, but let's be honest, we never see anything eye to eye, and even if we try and communicate our different perceptions, in the end we're going to be sticking with our own so, let's just break up for a while and see how this goes.

      Breaking up for a while doesn't mean that we need to be weird with one another/arch enemies, we kind of run a club and are in classes together, so please, let's be civil, and deal with this like mature adults (not that I think it will be a problem I'm just putting it out there, if anything I'd be the immature one about being sassy).

      Lol And heyyy, if anyone ever reads this aside from who this is intended for I'd like you guys to know that we're not a couple lol, even though, lol we kind of sound like one, we're two friends, having some issues is all.

      Okay, bye!

      PS: This time and copying all of this so I can just paste it back down if this website loses it again, personally I think what I wrote the first time was better but we're just going to roll with this now. #lessonlearned

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    2. Dude! wow! its so creepy but I can relate 100%. its like I have found my brain twin. I am so sorry, but I know that won't work. I know how you feel, honestly I am currently going through a failure myself. I have messed up bad and lost the most important someone I had. but its just nice to know that I am not alone in this field.

      anyways

      Good Luck

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  2. Frank Castle (The Punisher) is an Aquarius. It seems like I hate every Scorpio I come across. And I mean hate, not out of jealousy. They've got nothing I want. But, more of a disgust sort of hate. I tend to bully them, for trying to bully others.

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  3. I get along with some Scorpios. Others, no.

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  4. I actually found this quite funny. I am a Scorpio and I absolutely love Aquariuses, every best friend that I've had have been Aquarius. However to be fair I honestly identified with both qualities, I don't feel like much of a Scorpio sometimes because some of the traits associated with Scorp are just too extreme for me like jealousy, and I don't have a hateful bone in my body. I just don't care that much for me to hate someone and I find it a waste of time to dwell on old hurts, bitterness or trivial matters at that; like I said I just get over it and move on, life is too short. I just kind of have a live and let live mentality...but maybe that's the Gemini in me since that's what my moon sign is.

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    1. I married an Aquarius. We have 4 kids and have been married for 22 years. So to each it’s own.

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    2. I LOVE that! ~ this Scorpio who doesn't have a jealous bone in their body. I mean.. it makes me happy to know its possible b/c I have SO MUCH positive energy with Scorpios... but it seems those negative characteristics eventually start to creep in and I respond in Aquarian fashion and EVERYTHING is ruined lol. I put up my wall and Scorpio reinforces it from the other side. It's crazy. TBH this latest.. I'm glad they did that cuz I will never look back, this particular person was unevolved... completely selfish and aware of it - and tried to make me be selfish too. I'm a giver and that would anger him. I give things... whether its knowledge, I show someone how to do something or I give them some kind of friendship perk like... idk... my discount code or something - that would make him angry. If I knew how to do something technical that people needed help with - he would only want me to do it for him. SO WEIRD! It just made me see him in a completely different light that made me sick to my stomach. So I'm just glad to see it may not always be the case - and this gives me hope in the event anothe Scorp crosses my path. I mean... I almost hate to admit that I find Scorpions more intriguing than any other sign - except another Aquarius. So.. here's to staying open minded! <3 Blessings!

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  5. I'm an aquarifish, cusp on 'emotionally detached, aloof and uncaring aquarius` and `drowning in emotion pisces.' I though I had a friend, she was scorpio. I don't let people in because they all turn out to be shitty. So when I let her in as my friend and we crossed every bridge possible, she turned around and struck a match and smiled as 4 years of living together practically sisters exploded in flames. I am hurt and betrayed, but hey it's fun finding out ur scorpio sister just wanted to gain money out of u. Lucky I pay my debts, but when it's paid I know karma will find you and mess you up. Aquarians are not known for bitterness, so one day I will not be bitter and you will remember what you lost cos I will have peace of mind. Thanks for this article!

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    1. Great how we can pick and move on.. and even *appreciate* the lesson. Like.. I never really wish I didn't go through a negative event with someone. I'm glad for it - because NOW I KNOW for a fact... that person is trash. I'll never have to wonder... what if, or maybe I should have.... You were patient and let things play out... and now you know - Thats what we Aquarians do... and we don't carry the sad bad or mad feelings around long... and we never need to look back. <3

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  6. As as Aquarius sun squaring. Scorpio Pluto, I felt like I was reading about my own internal battle. I totally feel the philanthropic aspect of Aquarius as well as the misanthropy of Scorpio. My imagined solution to this is total annihilation without the enternal suffering that Scorpio secretly craves. Just enough for good measure. Haha

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  9. Virgos protec Aquarious's from Scorpios.

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    1. It wasn't for me. Oddly enough, I met a Virgo around that time 5 years ago who I felt ghosted me and being in my 5th house, but in reality was helping me get back to my Aquarian by giving me an 8th house warning that all Virgo and Aquarians give to each other generically, as I was on my way to the dark side, with the help of my watery moon in the role of Liaison. I didn't listen. That night owl shit was finally catching up. I let my soft moon take over and fall for the Plutonic seduction. It didn't help that I had some 8th house Sag and 12th house Arian "friends" encouraging my vices and descent into the hell of obsession, stalking, eyes wide shut bs, politics, and the taboo, secretive world of chemicals and disease. Now we have a prominent figure in the media, who falls in my 9th house specifically (12th house generically) seemingly with an agenda to bury these X (roman number 10) files. Maybe it'll protect me from the whore of babylon that is Pisces. Shrug
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      *In the 5 years, I notice that Google's presence has become even more intrusive. Now we have to have a Google account to post. Smh

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  10. Virgos protec Aquarious's from Scorpios.

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  11. smh... I'm a Proud Scorpio who just so happened to be with an Aquarius & of course we've been together for 11 going on 12 years & we're expecting our first child together (Due date Sept 4,2016)..... well anyway i just wanted to add that for those 11 years it's been an emotional roller coaster, it's true when they say Scorpio loves hard especially with matter of the heart, i don't do grey area's & it's funny how i'm reading this & thinking to myself... why this person is dead on the money when it comes to those two signs. smh well before i was Impregnated i was going to call it off completely because i didn't feel the same love nor respect was being given & BOOM!! i can't see myself with someone who feels that it's ok to have inappropriate conversation with the opposite sex even going as far as having sexual relations... I just can't forgive specailly when i know it's going to happen again...
    @Pastor Francisco Franco what you mean Virgo protects Aquarius from Scorpio?

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  12. smh... I'm a Proud Scorpio who just so happened to be with an Aquarius & of course we've been together for 11 going on 12 years & we're expecting our first child together (Due date Sept 4,2016)..... well anyway i just wanted to add that for those 11 years it's been an emotional roller coaster, it's true when they say Scorpio loves hard especially with matter of the heart, i don't do grey area's & it's funny how i'm reading this & thinking to myself... why this person is dead on the money when it comes to those two signs. smh well before i was Impregnated i was going to call it off completely because i didn't feel the same love nor respect was being given & BOOM!! i can't see myself with someone who feels that it's ok to have inappropriate conversation with the opposite sex even going as far as having sexual relations... I just can't forgive specailly when i know it's going to happen again...
    @Pastor Francisco Franco what you mean Virgo protects Aquarius from Scorpio?

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  13. Aquarius Rules!!!!!!!!! this is very true because i once had a relationship with a scorpio an i can definitely relate to this.
    Me and the Scorpio woman broke up, she has so much negative vibe in her though she was interesting because of her mysteriousness but her views on the society and the world is dark, she has so much distrust on the world.

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  14. I agree with 45% of what you say, it seems a little biased againt scorpio, scorpio has peace of mind what are you talking about.

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  15. i hate scorpio, they're moves are obvious to me, using other people to let them hide their method. what do i do is let their secret will be known to the society and they are scared of me. they're home are there weaknesses that is there safest place on earth that i will invade. every minute i never forget their bad motives.

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  16. You sound like the women lol must be the other way around

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  17. Peace of mind goes to Scorpios. Aquarius are serpents lol

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  18. As a true blue Aquarius I avoid Scorpios like the plague. Too many negative encounters with them to count.

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  19. Lol. Have you met every scorpions? May you meet good scorpions. who knows your daughter or son will be born as scorpions, that time you will see the true love n sacrifice of scorpions.n how much they actually cares about you n the world. Every human beings has a dark side so dont act like every scorpions are bossy n controlling. Aquarius are intelligent and they care for humanity thats good. But there are scorpions i have met and seen who are doing lots of good work for society n environment. Dont just generalize everything n everyone. After reading your blogs i think you have a bad experienced with scorpions and biased against scorpions. Not all aquarius are saints who are trying to save world n not all scorpions are evil who only thinks of themselves n bossy.

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  20. Ik 2 scorpios who r okay and one who is a control freak istg I get irritated when he does shit that's so foking annoying. my friend group agrees he is annoying. might be because he's still a kid like 3 years younger than me. I tried my best with being patient and kind with him but he just gets on my nerves. When I was his age I didn't insult people so aggressively and in wrong situations especially

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  21. aquarius here with a scorpio moon, and boy does my moon put me through hell. but i gotta say aquarius will in fact win over a scorpio, just because how much wiser they are.

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    1. False. Scorpio’s intellect, intuitiveness, and emotive eye is far superior to not only Aquarius but ALL three air signs.

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  22. Thank you so much for this response. I don't get most people's deal with scorpios, like what the hell??. Scorpios happen to be one of the most empathic and passionate people. So in as much as Aquarius would go about trying to save the world from evil, it's most probably in a detached sort of way, no feelings attached. But scorpios will take that shit serious to the very end.
    No sign is better than the other, and not all these stereotypes flying around are actually true. Beyond all we read, we should just love people as HUMAN BEINGS!!!!! Period.


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  23. Thank you so much for this response. I don't get most people's deal with scorpios, like what the hell??. Scorpios happen to be one of the most empathic and passionate people. So in as much as Aquarius would go about trying to save the world from evil, it's most probably in a detached sort of way, no feelings attached. But scorpios will take that shit serious to the very end.
    No sign is better than the other, and not all these stereotypes flying around are actually true. Beyond all we read, we should just love people as HUMAN BEINGS!!!!! Period.


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  24. Scorpios and Aquarius are ruled by their main planets that differ dramatically from the other planets in terms of orbit as in Pluto with Scorpio and rotation as in Uranus with Aquarius. These two oddballs who don't seem to like the status quo. I assume the status quo would be Leo who is represented by the sun. Both Scorpio and Aquarius aren't compatible with Leo who relish in selfish ego glorification and set the tone of what is right.

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